Anyone else tried for more than 6 months before your BFP?

I tried for 7 months and were finally 7 weeks along. I'm not finding a lot of people I can relate to... Everyone I know got accidently or quickly pregnant. I think the thing I feel the most is scared because it took longer than I expected, so if something happens to my baby, how much longer will I wait to be a mom? One of my coworkers has started trying, but she doesnt want to talk to me, just the other pregnant women who didn't have issues conceiving. Now I feel like people are scared to talk to me because I was the one who actually opened up about my struggles while it was going on. So my second fear is that if something happens to my baby, everyone really will ignore me of not knowing what to say to me. I know it's stupid to worry because I finally have my baby, but idk, just some insecurities I wonder if anyone else was feeling. Thanks for reading. :)