"You don't look pregnant, just a little chubby/plump"

Caitlyn

Does anyone have any experience with people, but especially older women telling you that? Because my grandma has been saying that to me this WHOLE TIME. I know she means well. She was 15 in the 1970s when she had my mom so I'm sure she's probably thinking about how when she was a new teen mom in that time period she didn't want everyone telling her how big and pregnant she looked, but still. Its driving me crazy lol