Would you on the first date?

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Would you or have you ever had sex on the first date? I’m getting back into dating and I really like this guy. We’ve met before as friends and I’m very attracted to him. I just don’t know if I should just let whatever happens happens or stop myself

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I have, and I haven’t. Depends on the person. Just make sure you’re safe!

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Do what feels right to you.
I've had sex on the first date once, no regrets really- I'd already spent months getting to know him & I knew he was a good person. 
It sounds like you also already have known this person. 
But everyone is different. I like to know someone enough to build attraction and make sure they're a decent person.

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Update! 
We did not have sex on the first date. The second date we did some things but didn’t go all the way. Third date we finally went all the way. Definitely worth the wait. I’ve known him so long and usually my first time with people is awkward but it felt so natural. Thanks for everyone’s advice!

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Do whatever feels right to you, but don't just rely on him for protection; always bring a condom jic.

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I had sex with my husband on the first date. We also knew each other in high school so i didnt feel bad about it. Do what you feel is right for yourself. Dont let anyone pressure u or force you to do something your not comfortable with!

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well, me and my son's father started off as friends and fucked on our first date and now we have a 13 month old son and going on 3 years of dating :)

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Depends on the context. I had sex on the first date once. It was a my biggest crush from college and we hadn’t seen each other in years but had been texting for at least 6 months before the first date. In that time we were both clear of our intentions and where we saw the relationship going, and we were on the same page. So in that context I felt comfortable going for it. But I don’t normally have sex on the first date, not because it’s inherently wrong but because I just don’t have sex with any/everyone. I like to make sure we have a future first (if not a future relationship then a future consistent casual sex dynamic). That’s just my preference. Do what suits you best.

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I had a one night stand once with a guy I really liked from the gym and I also met my husband at that same gym and when I met my now husband I was like fuck the other guy I wanna be with that guy 🤦🏾‍♀️ plus the guy totes was a douche.  Told everyone that worked there that I fucked him and then when I went to date my now hubby he lied to him and told him to stay away from me cuz I lie about my age and I was 17 not 18 and I had already been on many dates with my now hubby and he was furious he took me outside the gym put me In his car and made me show him my Id. I did and yes I was 18 just turned. And he was like omg ok cool. Cuz we’re 5 years apart 😂🤦🏾‍♀️ anyways the douche bag confronted us again about our relationship while we were working out and my hubby was a personal trainer and he’s huge af 245 lbs of muscles and no he doesn’t do drugs😑 i make sure of that and my man was like bro she doesnt want you and said it was the worst sex of her life. Move on or I’ll make you move on. And I was like soooooo turned on by that 🤤 now we have been together ever since I turned 18 and he married me at 19 and now I’m 25 and he’s 30 and we are expecting our first baby. 🤰🏾 
Long story short one night stands arnt worth it. Never do it On the first date if he really likes you he won’t pressure you like my date did and make me so uncomfortable I was screaming in pain. He will wait till you are ready like my husband did and he will even get you an apartment and say move on in after a few weeks haha #soulmates

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I only can have sex with someone if I'm in a committed relationship and I trust the person otherwise I don't want sex😂

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I never did, but I would have if it went that way. I slept with my husband before our first official date 😂 but that’s because we were really good friends

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