So a little bit of backstory. This is about my in-laws. None of them really wanted much to do with me since I married/ even started dating their son. We would have to ask what they were doing if we wanted to see them while they would ask their son-in-law and my husbands sister over all the time. Same with the sister and brother-in-law by the way. They don’t really have anything to do with us either unless it’s to see my husband. It used to not bother me because he came home from the military earlier this year and I just figured that they didn’t get to see him that much. But now that I’m pregnant, they’re wanting to be all apart of my babies life but not really include me in it. So we find out the gender today and I wanted my brothers wife to know. She’s always been there for me and she’s literally a best friend to me. Since some of my family won’t be there, I thought she could call them and tell them. Keep in mind she wouldn’t tell me or my husband. Well my husbands sister threw a fit because since she’s decorating it and pretty much throwing a gender reveal. But she doesn’t know my family members that won’t be there for the party and I kind of don’t trust her. But now since she’s thrown a fit my sister-in-law that I absolutely love and adore won’t know. Idk I just feel unsupported by my husband. Maybe it’s just my hormones but I’m really pissed about it and wanted to cancel the entire thing.

But any advice would be appreciated.

Also she has a child of her own that she doesn’t take care of that much. I’ve literally had to bathe her because her diaper was SO wet that is soaked through her clothes. So I doubt she’s jealous.