So I'm going to be posting this in two different groups just to get as much feedback as possible.

I am 12 months postpartum. My starting pregnancy weight was 250lbs and I got up to 282-285. The smallest I've been since is 259lbs and I am currently 279lbs. It seems like no matter what I do I can't lose weight and keep it off. I am 22 and only 5'2 1/2 which means my BMI is 50.2. My doctor thinks the only way I'll lose weight is with weight loss surgery. However I want two more children before I'm 30 and optimistically I'll be around 25 when we can start trying for baby #2 and then factor in how long it could take to get pregnant and then 40-42 weeks I could be 27 when we have #2, which means unless that pregnancy is twins we won't get baby number 3. Anyway I just need advice and need to know how you ladies have lost weight.

I am also pre diabetic, suffer from chronic migraines, and can't go a long time without eating because I get shakey and feel like I'm going to pass out or throw up.