Alright ladies, this post might be kind of long but definitely in need of some advice/ opinions.

Friday night I went out for drinks with a girlfriend and had plans to meet my boyfriend for dinner afterward. We ended up having way too much to drink and I blacked out. My boyfriend texted me and said ‘why don’t you guys just hang out and I’m gonna go to bed early tonight’ (He had a 12 hour 6 day work) Being in the drunken state I was in, I completely overreacted and at one point said ‘I’m done with you’. Once I had sobered up and realized what I had said- I immediately apologized. I explained to him that I had way too much to drink and just how sorry I was for behaving the way I did. I realize drinking is no excuse for poor behavior! I tried texting him Saturday morning with no response. So I assumed he needed a little space and I gave it to him. Sunday morning I sent another text explaining how sorry I am and I realize how badly I overreacted and wished him a Happy Father’s Day. He responded this time- but only to tell me ‘not to worry about it’ and he ‘isn’t mad at all’ ‘people’s true feelings come out when they’re drunk ‘. I told him that isn’t how I really feel- I just wasn’t in my right mind and I overreacted and again I realize drinking isn’t an excuse but all I can do is apologize at this point. I have a tried a couple more times to talk with him last night and this morning with no response.

At this point I’m a bit confused on where things stand between us. I understand I made a mistake. But I also think we should be able to have a conversation about what happened and work through it. I don’t think the ‘silent treatment’ is any way to handle things.