Ive only been trying for 4 months. It feels like forever, but fertility issues are very common in my family. I was so scared I couldn't get pregnant, but I took a test the day before my period was due and got my bfp. My boyfriend and I are so happy. He already has a son and a daughter that live with us. His son is 4 and his daughter is 3 months old (his ex was pregnant when him and I got together) so things will be hectic, but we're so happy.