Should I be upset?

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My husband told me he didn’t want to hear any “symptoms” I’m feeling. He said don’t say anything until I get a positive pregnancy test. I feel like that’s kinda unfair. Why do I have to be the one that stresses about the symptoms and he doesn’t have to think about it? It makes me feel like it’s one sided.

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But why are you stressing about symptoms ? That’s a waste of time and energy, I agree with him and you shouldn’t be symptom stopping either

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Even doctors will tell you not to symptom spot. Pregnancy symptoms and PMS are almost identical. Your setting yourself up for failure

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You telling him symptoms is giving him the high hope. Then it gets crushed when your Aunt Flo decides to show her ugly face.

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Agreed. Don’t symptom spot. I had more “symptoms” when I actually wasn’t pregnant than when I was.

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I guess it depends on how frequently you do it. 
If he doesn’t want to hear it at all, it’s a bit unfair considering he’s your partner so you should be able to share these things with him. 
But if you’re obsessing over it constantly, I wouldn’t want to hear about it either.

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My partner used to say that, now he's more open to me talking to him about it. I think they just have to take the time for themselves to realise what's going on with us
That's what I think anyway because I got fed up of explaining how I was feeling and why I wanted to share it with him

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I try not to. It’s just very hard not to. How do you change that?

Should I be upset?

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