I have small boobs and never had any problems with that.

So I let myself not wearing any bras sometimes or I just wear wire-free, unpadded bras like that :

And my guy asked me "why?? Why don't you wear real bras??...you know some of my friends asked me about that, it's visible, the shape is not the same...nobody wears that except my former old teacher who was 50 and everyone made fun of her"

I felt kinda hurt actually...it was like I'm not feminine enough, and now I feel ashamed of what it looks...the shape is apparently not good looking, people can see it and guys may make fun of me.

I'm 20 and I just feel like they see me as 12 year old girl now...

That's the first time in my life I've ever felt ashamed and concerned about my boobs.

I don't wear bras also because I heard it doesn't help for breast sagging so...

But he doesn't believe it at all...

So girls, I want to know if it's common to wear that kind of bras (picture)?😅