Do you and your husband fight?

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Do you and your husband fight? How do you feel when you fight do you feel like you want to be alone and have space or stay and talk it out?

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We disagree. If I start getting heated I tell him I need my space to calm my anger. I dont like reacting out of anger so once I calm down I can see things from a better perspective.

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we don’t fight. we have small disagreements that are resolved quickly. he hates confrontation, so whenever we have a problem with something we address it, find a solution, then problem solved. whenever we have disagreements, sometimes i do go outside or just go to a different room to calm down so i don’t say something i don’t mean out of frustration,

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I think a little fighting is healthy and all marriages go through growing pains. I’ve been with my husband since HS and I’m 30 now so we’ve learned when to pick our battles with each other. I consider fighting to be the point where neither can come to an agreement on an important issue and to experience that a few times a year on really important matters. Of course we get irritated with each other here and there. He can’t seem load the dishwasher even if he clears the table and rinses the dishes...he also can’t put the input back on the TV after playing PS. I know I do little things that annoy the shit out of him as well. His family causes us some issues as his mom is a narcissistic alcoholic and his dad can be just as bad but they’re divorced and so he deals with it double. Just adjusting to being new parents and balancing our own families has been tricky for us. I will also say that if it wasn’t for a few fights we’ve had, our lives wouldn’t have progressed as it has and I’m actually grateful for those times we stood our ground with each other. Marriage isn’t easy and there’s a reason the divorce rates are so high.

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My SO says the meanest things to me when we fight. Hurtful, spiteful things that tear into my heart. I now try to do the same but it doesn’t affect him. I just end up more sad, crying, trying to block out the hurt and thinking I should be leaving this relationship. I’ve thought it many times, even to the point I started looking for a new home. Sometimes I just can’t eat either.

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Nope! We have never had a fight. We maybe have an argument once a year and it’s not even really an argument. 
We have communication skills and if something is wrong or upsets us, we calmly discuss it and listen to each other and come to a solution. There is no reason to fight. We have a toddler and a child should never see or hear a fight.

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We don't really fight much. We get into disagreements but we generally are the talk it out right away type. And if emotions are too high he'll usually be the one to say he needs a minute to cool down.

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We fought a lot the first year we were married. But we haven't fought at all recently. I choose not to pick fights or get offended, like I used to.

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