I’m a shy girl, but last summer was wild for me and I vowed never to be like that again. I joined the military and got my life together. This year I have only slept with one guy who I had dates for a period of time. I had many chances to do it again with many guys that were into me but chose to respect myself and not allow myself to fall back to the way I used to be. I used to be a straight up hoe and I will admit to it.

Finally last weekend my friend convinced me to go to the club and since I had always wanted to go I was excited! I did not even plan on talking to any guys because I didn’t think I was “attractive enough”. We actually ran into some soldiers and marines and I hit it off with them right away. We all danced and had a good time. Never in my life have I had 5 guys trying for me all at once.. I ended up exchanging numbers with one of them. The following day he invited me to go hang with 2 of his friends who were at the club he night before. We explored the city and had an AMAZING time. Like these could totally be my “bros” if thats what it all came out to be. All 3 are so fine and attractive. We exchange Snapchats and planed on going out again this next weekend. Sadly.. all 3 are flirting with me. I’m kinda torn. I feel like if I choose to friend zone all 3 I could be missing out. I’m also not looking to get into a relationship but your girls trying to have some fun to, it’s been a while 🤷🏻‍♀️ tonight one admitted to liking me.. one admitted low key to wanting to have “fun” this weekend, and the one I like the most has been a total gentleman and has talked to me the most. I want to “have fun” with the one who’s been a gentleman but I don’t want to start drama with the other two.. we could all end up being great friends.. should I friend zone all 3 or just take my chances and go for the one I like?