Ladies, please give me advice

Kayla

So, I never meant to get myself into this situation. And I wish I can time travel and change what I did to come to this situation. Basically, I hooked up with this guy. He’s sweet and very intelligent and we really just clicked. It really all sounds so cliche I know I know. But I just never found someone who was goofy like me, good looking, and very smart. He clearly wasn’t going through a great time. He used to go to MIT and was still an MIT student when I met him. So considering that, it makes sense he was quite depressed. Anyways back to my point, I hooked up with him a few weeks ago and I can’t stop thinking about him ever since. I just cannot stop and it’s driving me insane. I’m doing everything I can to stop and recently, I found out that he is leaving MIT and America for one year. I just felt so sad and still do feel very sad about it. The fact that I probably will never meet him again is just saddening. Even if we couldn’t have become a serious thing, at least he could’ve been a pretty good friend you know? I just feel so hopeless. I haven’t caught any serious feelings ever since my terrible breakup few years ago and now I remember why I tried avoiding these kinds of situations. It really hurts and I’m so desperate to grab any advice to forget this person. So please please pleaseee, give me some encouragement just ANYTHING. Your own personal experience (as I’m sure others been through similar ones)! Anything would be appreciated 🥺😊I don’t know what to do in this kind of situation. I’ve hooked up with others before but he’s something different...