I’m turning 30 next month and I want to go on a trip. Of course I want to go with my husband but he owns a business and just can’t take off because he’s so busy. But he went on 3 trips this year already with friends. golf trip, bachelor party and another golf trip. He said they were already planned in advance so he had to go. My sister and I could just go on a trip but I really wanted to spend It with him. he said we could maybe go away in September. I had a miscarriage in April but before that i assumed i would be pregnant for my 30th. I just don’t want to be home and sad on my bday. What should i do?