What do I do

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My boyfriend and I just found out I was pregnant were 20 and 22 and he’s making me to go to the teen health centre and getting the abortion pill I still haven’t even analyzed or let it sink in I’m so confused I need some insight... I’m so lost and I don’t want to talk to anyone I know🙁
Has anyone been through this? Good or bad I want to hear anything besides my own thoughts rn
Someone help me get this feeling away, I feel terrible right now

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If you want this baby, you ABSOLUTELY BETTER NOT GO TO THAT CLINIC! And if he leaves you because of it, just know you CAN do this without him and he is NOT worth it at all. Please please sweetie if you want this baby, and he tries to force you more, KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB. This is YOUR choice. I pray you make the best decision for yourself. Good luck babe❤❤❤

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First off, he can’t MAKE you do anything. If he doesn’t want a baby, he can sign away his parental rights when it’s born. He can only make you do something if you let him

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If you don’t want an abortion don’t get one. I would highly recommend taking time to comprehend your situation before you make a decision because although this is a situation you’re both involved in, it is your body and over all your decision in the end. Don’t do it because that’s what he wants.. if an abortion isn’t truly what you want, it will cause so much guilt and regret for you that could have been avoided and it may even lead to having harsh feelings towards him because it’s something he pushed you into before you got to really process it and make your own decision.

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He can’t force you to have an abortion if it isn’t what you want

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Do not allow someone to force you to have an abortion. You only make that decision if you 100% want to. If you allow someone to pressure you into it, you could grow to resent them and then your relationship could fall apart in the end. This is something you need to decide for yourself. You also have to consider that if you keep the baby then your boyfriend could choose to walk away. So be prepared for that as well. I wish you the best of luck.

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If your not ready and cannot afford to raise a child then do what you have to do. Don’t make a child suffer because you cannot provide. If you do keep it alive then work your ass off or give it up for adoption.

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Ur chooice yes he has a option on what he would like since his child to but in the end itbur choice u dont want to then say no im having it he may or may not get over it some will stay mad and turn them self around some stay mad and come around after the baby are born and some dont do what u would i was 16 when I got mine cuz i felt forced boyfriend mom wherent supportive with my choice i made keeping it i i did go through with it ti this day still hate my choice was probably at the time the better choice i see that now but i feel horrible i was so young and felt ao pressured

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Honey. If you want to keep that baby, you keep that baby! I’m 19. Will be 20 before baby is here. My fiancé is 21. And I’m 21 weeks pregnant with my daughter. It’s going to be tough, yes. But if you want that baby, you absolutely do not need to go to that clinic!! Head up, darling. You got this! ♥️♥️

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He can’t make you. It’s 100% YOUR decision and you’re responsible for whatever choice you make.

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You do not have to do what he says! If you don’t want to have an abortion, don’t have one. He knew the consequences of having sex! Period! You can absolutely do this by your self if you want to. Believe me. Don’t allow him to dictate what to do with your life, better yet YOUR LIFE & YOUR CHILDS LIFE! If you want this baby, you keep this baby. Your child will show you more unconditional love, patience, etc. than he apparently ever will. That’s a life changing decision for many of women, so whatever you choose just make sure that’s the decision you truly want & don’t let any one pressure you into any thing.

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