So my husband's brother got his current girlfriend pregnant. Not intentionally and they weren't even dating at the time. They met on tinder, he was horny, she was rebounding. The idiots didn't use protection (I don't normally judge a situation like this, but really, he's an idiot). They don't really know each other, she got pregnant they're first time hooking up. She moved in with him at about 3 months and sh*t has only gone down hill.

Trust me I understand how crappy doing anything is when pregnant. The emotions are high and she's pretty young still but here's some examples of what she's putting him through.

She doesn't cook or clean or pay any rent or bills at his house.

She has threatened not to put him on the birth certificate because he wanted to golf with my husband (planned a week in advance) rather than go to a last minute BBQ with her family.

She reschedules every doctors appointment she makes so that he can't go along and be involved.

She's been to the doctor at least once every week of her pregnancy, usually more, and has 12+ ultrasounds. Pregnancy is normal, baby is fine, no medical complications with mom or baby.

Also she is trying to get induced a month earlier than her due date!

She's just making the family miserable, and driving my BIL crazy. I just don't know what to do to help anymore, or if I should say something or stay out of it. It's been a mess.

P. S. That's just a couple examples of how she acts, there's more. Thanks for listening to me rant.