confused

My partner was determined to make me cum and i appreciate him for that but i’m starting to question is there anything wrong with me. sometimes sex doesn’t feel good it hurts or i just feel pressure. only thing i was able to do was squirt. but sometimes sex gets overwhelming and i feel like i have to pee. i really wanna cum but every time he starts getting fast and pounding me it gets overwhelming and i wanna stop. but he tells me that i can’t cum because every time i’m probably almost close I wanna stop. but idk it just a weird feeling that comes over my body where I can’t help but to push him off.