What are signs that one is in a toxic relationship?

Don’t judge pls I just need help figuring these type of things out. It’s my first ever real relationship and I’ve never really been through what I am going through right now. 😪😞☹️

Here r some things I’ve been through n still am :

- he’s always somehow accusing me that I’m cheating

- he always starts arguments. I don’t ever do and never have started one.

- he screamed at me like more than twice already

- he gets mad at me when we’re out together in public and I talk to my friends and not him

- he’s always on me about everything

- he tried to tell me what I can and can’t do but I don’t let myself

- oh and way before we started dating I got treated like crap so many times and til this day I don’t know why.

- and he also makes him self the victim every time he starts an argument and I try to defend myself