Trying but not really


My husband and I have been trying for about a year but not really trying.. he said she wants it but we don’t really have sex like once a month if I’m lucky. I’ve been over weight for a while and have tried everything to lose it. He asked to lose the weight and we will have more sex so we can get pregnant. But when I’m doing my part he doesn’t do his. Every time we see a friend pregnant he tells me we need to try harder but it never happens. I’ve not been regular for a while and I’ve been to the doctor and they’ve told me I still can get pregnant. But he never does his part. Every time I try to talk to him he just gets mad and promises he’s gonna try. I don’t know what to do anymore. Everyone blames me for this because of my weight I wish I can tell them all everything.