I’ve been in two relationships in my life so far, one boy and one girl. I loved the boy and I still think of him and it’s hard to look at him, he left me because he didn’t love me anymore. The girl was something she wanted to try, I said we could date and see if I liked her the same way. We got together and I started to fall for her, the girl she was looking at before she got with me then asked her out. She asked me what to do so I told her “If you love me then stay, if you love her then get her.” So she left me a couple nights later. I wouldn’t want my partner to be upset. I wanted them both to be happy, but I think it took a toll on me.

There’s a cute girl at my school, yes. But I don’t feel anything relationship wise. I’m not really a romantic person. I’m a female and can’t seem to figure myself out. I need help.