little backstory last year I was raped, which was also my first time. now I am finally comfortable having sex again with other guys but haven’t yet and I have tried using a dildo penetration hurts I can’t never do it so I am scared to do it with other guys does it get better? Should I let them know about what happened to me these guys are not in it for the long term and that’s fine with me i just keep dodging meeting up with them