Would you move out of state after a year and a half with the man you want to marry?

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I’m madly in love with my boyfriend and i know i am going to marry him. We’ve been together for a year and he lives in a different state then i do. My mom and i keep fighting about it but i wouldn’t be moving till December or January. Am i crazy?

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I moved 480 miles away to my girlfriend of 8 years, we split after 9 months. Give love a chance, but like someone said before, don't let it blind you.

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It's risky if you haven't lived together before. I always say you truly don't know someone until you live with them, so it's possible that you can get down there and end up realizing it was a bad idea. If you do it, make sure you have money in your own savings and a job lined up just in case.

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I say give him a chance because love is worth that. If it doesn't work out then at least you won't be constantly questioning the "what ifs..." BUT do NOT let love blind you. If he is doing things that you don't like don't just overlook it!

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Are you engaged?

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Lots of things to consider. I moved in with my now fiancé after about 14 months (he was deployed for half of that time). We did spend weekends together since his base was only an hour away. It wasn’t as if I’d never spent any real time with him or as if it were a strictly online/phone relationship. That was all five years ago. 
I’d be concerned if you two don’t ever spend real time with each other. Moving in would be a major shock for the two of you.

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I wouldn't abandon my job for someone else's job. 
Unless I am getting an equally good job there or better. 
Most women will recommend you to abandon your whole existence to follow your "love". 
I would say be smart and choose what's best for you as an individual first and then as a couple.

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Reading this I assumed you already lived together but he got a job in a different state so it was a question of relocating with him or not. Moving in together is a huge step that some people can handle and some don't. As long as you don't burn any bridges so you have a place to come home to if things don't work out, I'd give it a try.

Would you move out of state after a year and a half with the man you want to marry?

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