Does it get any easier?

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I had a early miscarriage 06-02-19.  I am still feeling sadness. I ask god why us why did u do this to us. I don’t know if i should give up trying or keep trying. I’m tried of stressing about not being pregnant but my heart is still grieving. All i do is work to keep my mind off of it but at night is the hardest i can never go to sleep. Will i ever feel the same?

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The important thing is to allow yourself to grieve. There is no right or wrong length of time. It does get better. You start thinking about it a little less over time and while it does still hurt, it's not as bad. My husband told me that we got pregnant once, so it means we can do it again. Getting closer each time...its not easy. Many times I wanted to give up. But at some point this year, I decided: I wanna enjoy sex and my life again. It helped. Enjoying what I have was fulfilling and relaxing. Everyone told me you get pregnant as soon as you decide you like how life is....and they were absolutely right. Grieve, and move forward at your own pace. Try again when you're ready. Or just dont try to prevent it. Things usually have a way of working out for the best even if you have to go through A LOT of heartache first. It makes us stronger and more grateful for what we have. I'm sorry for your loss, and I wish you healing.

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Thank you

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