Everything was great with my husband until now that we had our first child. I see post about how woman fall in love with their husbands once they become fathers, I feel the opposite, I feel like I am falling out of love.

He loves our daughter, but he is not as committed as I wish he was... it all started the first day at the hospital, he wasn’t there as much as I would have expected, and he would rather let her cry than trying to spend time with her calming her down... he gets upset because he can’t sleep in the middle of the night and complains about being tired 😴 when I am the one that is awake all night long and spend all day with her too. I just feel disappointed, hopeless and afraid that this will be a sign of a very bad problem in our marriage. I really love him, and he is a good husband overall, he tries to take care of me, but his attitude towards the baby is just not what I expected.

Last night he was upset because he was not being able to sleep because of baby noises, then in the middle of the night I accidentally touch his feet and he got super upset because it woke him up, then he through a feet because baby making noises. I dealt with the baby almost the 24 hours... He woke up at noon and I just let him do whatever he wanted but I was super upset because his attitude, so I basically did not communicate much with him, I just did not want to say something that would hurt him or make things worst.

Tonight he stayed awake all night on his computer I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️ doing what... and he just decided to go to sleep in a recliner than coming to bed. I have been awake all night waiting for him to come to bed and feeling sad..I need some advice in how to approach this situation. He not coming to bed is not helping at all, it is making me super upset that i just want to scream at him and cry... I just feel so much anger right now.