Have all the March Mama’s had sex yet? Is it comfortable for you?

I’m freaking out a little because when I tried with my husband (using lots of lube), I could not get the tip of his penis inside of me.

I had a second degree tear and at my 6w checkup my OB informed me that my tear had over-healed by about 3mm. He prescribed estrogen cream which has helped with the tear area not being as tender.

I tried to have sex again but no luck. I went back to my OB and now I am using glass vaginal dilators. When he did a two finger examination of my internals he said the muscle bands are spasming and closing off the opening.

I am breastfeeding so I am also super dry and not in the mood at all!

I’m feeling bad for my husband. I know our relationship is more than the sex but I miss the closeness we shared. We used to have a wild sex life even after a decade together.