So I go back and forth with how I feel and how to handle the situation. My mother watches my daughter 2 days a week while I work. She consistently complains of how tired she is when she has her. However the days that she doesn’t have her and I take my daughter to the pool or splash park she wants to go. When my mother is around my daughter won’t spend time with her friends and clings to my mother. I try and explain this to my mother but then she makes me feel like shit. She leaves places and acts pissed off at the world. My mother continues to overstep her boundaries and wants pity when I yell at her for doing it. Please someone give me advice