Just more of a question..

What if you were forced to go to a relative's house that has made it abundantly clear that you arent welcome. What would your attitude consist of? (And by forced I mean the person's are minors 14 and 13 and its court ordered)

Disrespect and attitude?

Or sit and try to make it seem like they told you they didnt want you there, while still treating you and telling you that you arent wanted there?