Do you think a bad sex life can ruin a marriage?

Question

My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and we rarely have sex. In the 2 years we have had sex less than 40 times, literally. 
I have tried lingerie, dirty talk, initiating, and talking  about it. Nothing seems to help.
I am frustrated, I know a relationship is not all about sex, but... I can't help but wonder if this will be our downfall.

Answer

Guy here. Not necessarily. Have you tried asking about why he doesn't want to? Some people are bad at sex in life and thats fine, you can do things to change it up. But you can't force passionate love making. It sounds like the spark is gone from your relationship.

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Im pretty sure thats all the sex we have. We are both too tired lol.

Answer

40x in 2 years isn’t THAT crazy if your relationship is good in other ways. Not everyone is having sex 3x a week. Especially if both people have full time jobs, kids, other commitments etc.

Do you think a bad sex life can ruin a marriage?

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