He doesn't care

My husband an I have been trying for a nether baby , an he saids he wants a nether but then when im ovulating he will cum in me on the non important days then it's like 33 percent chance he will just blow me off like I'm nothing to him. Its actually hurting me feelings he hardly has been touching me or even wanting to give me a kiss . He slept on the couch last night. ??? What am I doing wrong or did is the question