For some time now I’ve been feeling like I want to leave my boyfriend of 9 years we have a beautiful daughter together and in the past 3 years he’s really embracing her. Acting like a REAL daddy. I love that he acks this way but I don’t feel like our relationship is what it use to be and I have major anxiety when he takes her on play dates with his client. I don’t feel like he’s being loyal but he will not admit anything is happening. I don’t want to break this relationship he has made with his daughter but I feel like he’s not what I feel in love with since our interest have gone separate ways. Examples are like him wanting to have group sex while I want to be monogamous. He’s not helping with finances the way I want him to . He makes half what I make and it’s been that way for a while with me carrying most of the financial weight. He doesn’t see the need to change jobs and these things are all things we’ve discussed time and time again. He recently got a ticket for drinking and driving but he doesn’t seem to be Putting any urgency in getting it taken care of . I’m currently driving him to work and back . It’ll be like this for a year and a half till they unsuspend his license. I hate to leave him like this while he’s in need but I’m honestly getting tired of him not thinking about our future .