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My due date was last February with the twins I lost. We decided to go on vacation and get away. Well the day my csection with them was set for was February 15. I was absolutely a mess. We were in Sedona and I wanted to visit a church there that’s famous. I did . I lit two candles and bought a pendant that’s the saint Philomena. She’s the saint of married couples , infertility and babies. Found out I was pregnant that night. I’m now 23 weeks Monday with a little boy. I haven’t taken this necklace off since. Don’t ever give up. God has the craziest timing.
How do you deal with approaching your due date?
I don’t know how to really say this but I feel like I’m slowly losing it as my original due date approaches (July 11). I sadly have two of these dates to dread (Nov 13 was my second due date) but I just want to stay positive and get through this. I feel like everyone I know is pregnant, even though I know that’s not the case, but my heart is just so heavy. How have you coped with passing a day that should have made you a mommy?
Side note is I find out next Tuesday if we can start trying again. I had surgery for a uterine septum removal so I hope all is ok and we can at least try again soon!
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Same time line as you mama. Our first due date is July 4 second loss was due oct 18. Periods have been all over the place and we have a dr appointment next Friday to see what the next step is. I am dreading these next few days.... 💔 sorry i have no answer for you- but you are not alone
Am
Thank you❤️ best of luck to you
Mi
I’m so sorry for your losses! We found an amazing fertility doc and just got the clear to start trying again and he has a path forward with fertility meds if we don’t conceive naturally. It’s amazing feeling taken care of and understood so I hope you find the same! Best of luck hun esp in the next few days ❤️
Dont have any solutions, just want you to know that i am in the same boat, and my heart breaks every month coming closer and nothing has happend😔
So
Me to.. every day.. its the worst thing ive ever been through. I dont know how i should move on, its just a constant pain that gets worse every day that goes by and nothing happens..
Mi
It’s awful, I can’t help but think how far along I would be now and how different my life would have been.
I had a missed miscarriage and in November, but I didn’t find out till my 12 week appointment right before Christmas. My due date was Friday July 5th and I’m asking myself the same question. I’m already a mess and I’m literally taking it an hour at a time. (A day at a time is to much for me right now) I totally understand what you are feeling right now. I’m absolutely dreading it. I can’t wait for it to be over 😔
Mi
That’s so similar to me, baby stopped growing at six weeks which would have been November and I didn’t find out until December 10 when I started bleeding. It’s such a painful process, my due date would have been July 11 and just entering the month is so daunting to me. Prayers to you though and it’s nice to not feel alone at least.
First, I’m sorry for your losses. My due date was January 7. I pretty much fell apart. I was in a terrible funk and super emotional. My so helped me through it. He loved on me and let me ugly cry. Sometime in that week we also got drunk together and talked, cried and laughed together. I took a lot of me time.
Mi
That’s so wonderful your so was there for you, I am sure my husband will be as well. It’s good to remember we are both affected ❤️
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