Being around a pregnant friend after miscarriage

sara

My friend and I went through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> at the same time. I was pregnant first and had a miscarriage when she found out she was pregnant. Her 30th bday surprise party is coming up in August and I just can’t go. I was supposed to be pregnant too. I have to protect myself and I know going will trigger me. Has anyone dealt with being around a pregnant friend after a miscarriage? Did you avoid until you were ready? I don’t think I will be ready again until I’m pregnant