I left

Weedah

So I decided to leave my husband after he got physical with me. Besides the physical part, he also continued to talk to/ mess with other women out entire marriage ( which was only for a year) I never had proof that he was sexual with another women but talking to and flirting was enough for me. Specially because we were only married for 1 year! And he cheated on me before I even decided to marry him smh.

So basically, even though he was a crappy husband and hurt me I still feel bad, like I’m quitting on my marriage 😪 but why? I feel like I’m the bad guy for leaving and I don’t know how to get over this feeling. I didn’t even go to his higher ups about the physical abuse because I didn’t want to hurt him ! He’s been writing me basically telling me I’m quitting on our relationship and it’s really taking a toll on me.

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You are not quitting anything! You are investing in your safety and well being. I stayed in a marriage for 19 years waiting for my ex to change and he NEVER EVER did. His behavior only escalated and someone was about to get seriously hurt or maybe even fatally injured. It’s not worth staying. He is trying to manipulate you into thinking that it’s you but you didn’t put your hands on him. It’s not ok for him to be physical with you. It’s actually against the law! Stay strong and move on❤️

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Weedah • Jul 12, 2019
Thanks for this!

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What she said is right! You made the right choice and good for you for having the strength and courage to leave! My situation sounds identical to yours and now Im 4 years in (3 years married) 2 babies later and its only gotten worse. Now in the process of divorce

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Weedah • Jul 12, 2019
Thanks for this !