Marriage / sex life...

I guess I should start off by saying that I love my husband. I do. But honestly I dont want to be touched or touch anyone at the end of the day... i know that isnt what he wants to hear at all but im 3 months PP and I stay at home with our daughter. He doesnt have patience he isnt gentle or very kind any more its like ge wants what he wants and nothing I say or do will make him happy unless he gets off... I feel so unappreciated unattractive and over all just not good about a lot... and its all because of him honestly if he changed how he talked to me and the words he uses when he talks to me we wouldnt be in such a bad place but he speaks to me as if im just some girl. I am his wife, the mother of his child and he doesnt even respect me. Idk what the resolution is to our issues. We have been together 7 years come August and im not throwing in the towel.