My husband is a serial cheater and I’m cool with it

I know my husband is a serial cheater. I gave that bastard 20 years of my life and three beautiful children and he is cheating. You know what? I haven’t and I wouldn’t confront him. I am gathering all my evidences silently to divorce him and take every gadaamn thing that he owns. F**k cheaters!

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I really want to give update and spill it all but I have to be careful about how much I share because you never know who is reading and where this post will get to. I’m trying not to let out all I know yet until we get to court. In summary, I have been monitoring him for years. He goes away on “business trips” every single time but really he was going to a younger woman’s house. One time he spent a whole month away from home “on business trip”, it was all a lie. My phone is unlocked so my husband has access to it if he wants, but his own phone is locked. He isn’t smart enough though because all I need to do is to keep an eye and cram his lock pattern, which I always do so I stoop around on his phone every now and then. My dear husband’s phone is full of saucy pictures of him and different women. One particular girl he seems to be talking to the most and she sends him pictures, some of which they took together... what I have been doing is sending whatever I see on his phone to my own phone and then deleting them from my phone after emailing them to myself... I created an email address he does not know about solely for this. In one of the text messages, my husband referred to me as “old hag” 😂😂 me?! He is older than I am!!! I am 44 and he is 47.

I found an underwear in his luggage and he said “I saw that and I thought it was yours. Maybe something new you bought”. He takes my quietness for stupidity.

I remember one day I called him to ask him what he would like for dinner, he said he was working late and asked me not to wait up. Little did he know that I had hired a car and waited for him at his work. He left his work at 2:15pm!!! We followed him and he stopped somewhere to pick up this same young woman and a child. He kissed the woman and hugged the child. He then carried the child into his car and the woman followed. My heart sank. We followed him to an address where the three of them went in. Pictures were taken of everything.

I call him a serial cheater because his cheating didn’t start recently, it has been going on for years. Years of pain, years of emotional hurt, years of loneliness, years of blaming myself, years of putting up with his bs. So I decided to get myself together and gather every evidence that I need to leave him. Our children are all above the age of 16. My fear is him taking all we have worked hard for and going away with another woman so I will beat him to it with the divorce. I chose this man when he had nothing! Everything that he is today, is all thanks to me. I loved him, supported him, was there for him and chose him when my father asked me to choose between him or my family because they did not like him. Everyone saw the deceit in him that I was too blind and Inlove to see.

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There might be grammatically errors in my update which I will come back to edit later.