my boyfriend and i were just sitting in bed talking about random things as we always do and, trying to be cute, tells me he “doesn’t wanna fuck anyone but me” and “only wants my pussy”. He then continues to say “except for like 2 pornstars” and proceeds to tell me one of her names. “she’s sooo hot”. this made me really upset and insecure to the point where i teared up. he’s also brought up that he has a thing for redheads, i am a brunette. i feel like he does this on purpose to make me feel like this, because i know he’d also get upset/annoyed when i have brought up guys i find attractive in the past. do i have a right to be mad and feel like this, or am i just overreacting?