Is he cheating or am I overthinking?

I’m starting to think it’s just my hormones 🤰🏼 and I feel bad for accusing him of cheating but there’s too many 🚩’s for me not to question it

I know most of you will comment how if there’s no trust there’s no relationship but hand on heart I trusted him but I can’t ignore what’s starring me in the face..

- hiding phone

- random numbers

- doesn’t make plans to see me

- whenever his phone rings he’ll stand up, if they ask what he’s doing he says fuck all I’m on my own, when I’m sat right there

- we don’t have sex anymore

- he lies about where he is, he’ll go clubbing when he’s meant to be coming over and will message the next day like nothing happened

- he keeps adding females on Facebook (that he doesn’t know) when I asked him not to.

At the start of our relationship he was texting other females and had a lot of girls numbers so I feel like that is cheating to is it not?

I’ve been cheated on before and feel like I’m being blind sited again because I don’t want to believe it.

I told him I wanted to leave because I’m not being treated right and he just cried and kept saying sorry I love you and I’m gona change.

I’m really torn🥺

Do I give him another chance or do I pack my things and leave.

I feel like I will never be enough for anyone, i don’t know how anyone could ever cheat

I’ve told him many times if you don’t love me anymore or you’ve let yourself get your head turned by someone else don’t cheat on me, leave.

My past relationships have messed me up and I stayed single for almost 2 years before I met him and I let my guard down and my gut is telling me it’s happened again and to just give up