Me and my boyfriend got a place last October things was okay (well kinda)he was working I was working and going half on bills, then he loses his job in February mainly because his attitude but he refuses to admit that he’s the type to blame others for his actions. Well anyway he texted me saying he was fired and he got home and contacted his mom as always when he gets in some shit she told him to get in contact with unemployment he got that straighten and eventually got unemployment they was only giving him like 2 something a week. After he lost his job our living situation went down hill.. I can’t even say it started going down hill when he lost his job even when he had a job it was times where he would try to give his half of rent late because he spent it. But since he lost his job he was spending ALL his money barley contributing to anything he spends it mainly on weed. All expenses are on me. He ended up getting a part time job getting paid weekly but wasn’t a lot of hours at all he spends all that money up so rent,BGE, water bill and anything we may need for the house is on me. I work my ass off trying to maintain the bills and barely ask him for a dime. Today we was arguing he said you couldn’t even give me 7 dollars to extend my stuff that’s in the pawn shop... I forgot to mentioned he puts anything value able in the pawn shop to get money for it his ps4, my lap top, his DVD player I got him, his tablet I got him but yeah he was mad I didn’t give him 7 dollars when I literally gave him 70 dollars for his birthday and he just got his pay check can you believe that money was gone in less than a week and he asked me to give him 7 dollars for the pawn shop for his stuff I didnt give it to him I said you had money and never and thought about what you needed to do with your money you just spent it but now that you have to take care of things and now that you’re broke you’re looking for me to help. He kept telling me don’t worry about him he got only himself. He was getting mad because I was saying to him you’re sitting here stressing because you don’t have a job when there was jobs who contacted him and choose not to go to them he tells me that it wasn’t true. He’s also the type to switch up his words and he plays the victim a lot. I told him he can move out and go back to his brothers where he was at before moving together he was bill free so I was giving him the opportunity he doesn’t want to go. We’re always getting into it because of how he is as well he can leave out back in forth whenever he wants but soon as I have somewhere to go he’s asking where I’m going or he wants to come but when he has somewhere to go he’s always saying I’ll be back and leave. He never since we been together planned a date where he pays. He’s a huge flirt plenty of times I have found things he did on social media or just on his phone. Last year on his birthday he got a girl number and was texting her and I brung it up he said why are you looking in my stuff. He was leaving comments on girls pictures. I found a girl picture deleted out his phone he changed his password after that. He’s been saying he’s upset he hasn’t seen his son then his baby mother pops up with his son he doesn’t answer the door I guess because I seen him trying to force himself to get back with her when we started talking. It’s just so much but he makes it seem like I’m the problem. I mean am I ?