What would you do if someone told you this to your face?

I have worked on my confidence for so long. I have dealt with depression for most of my life and I’m finally seeing the light. This is SUPER controversial, but for most of my life I felt trapped in my own body. I had cosmetic procedures to match the person I am in the inside with the outside. I debuted my new look and got support. Except, one girl from my class. She came up to me and said “you used to look better before, I don’t like the way you look now” and for the past couple of days, she has been spreading word about the procedures I’ve had done and even said it in front of one of our professors, as well as told one. WHICH I DID NOT WANT, I believe I should be the one to open up about this to others, not her. I had a talk with her and told her to stop, but she doesn’t get it. I had been nice to this girl many times, helped her with fundraising and many other school projects, yet when I need her support she’s straight out rude and starts saying things.

I see her everyday for uni, and even though I already spoke to her about this I feel very upset. I no longer want to help her with any of her projects nor speak with her due to how disrespectful she’s been to me.. especially since she knew how much I struggled with depression and my confidence. She is holding a party, and I know she’s going to want me to help her but my plan is to say no, because I’ve lost respect for her as a “friend.”

Am I going to far??

Am I being over dramatic?

Plz no rude comments 🌈 ✨