Another baby!?

Currently 9.5 months postpartum. When we tried for our first, we agreed that once we got pregnant, wed like a second within a couple years. Ideally an 18month-2year age gap.

So now that we could start trying anytime, I find myself second guessing. Is it too soon? But we dont want 3 year age gap or more, as were that way with our siblings and would like our kids closer in age. But I feel guilty. Physically I feel fantastic. I'm 10 pounds off from pre pregnancy weight, which is fuck all, as I have been this weight before I was pregnant lol. So I'm comfortable with my body, I exercise everyday, moderately. I've been eating healthy since I was pregnant. I feel good. Just guilty.

I'm torn between "giving my first the attention she deserves," as my family says, and, giving my kids a close age gap so they are closer as friends than my hubby and I with our 3yr+ age gap siblings.

I'm not even worried about handling two under two.. or a 2 year old and a newborn. ...well maybe a tad, but not really lol.

I feel like purposely trying for a second already is selfish. Even though our main reason is for our kids to be close...

Hubby has been pulling out and I have been secretly hoping I was pregnant every month. Just like i did the first time round before we started testing. Ugh. What to do.

Any advice mommas?

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