Dont know who else to ask

Does anybody else feel like they done exist in there familys eyes since having kids ( not my hubby or kids) like your parents or siblings? When family come over l talk to them and they just don’t respond or listen, they just pretty much talk to my kids and hubby, I’m not jealous that they get spoken to or attention, I just feel like I’m talking and no one can hear me, that also makes me not want to reach out to them for help, because I feel like they don’t care so when I have a bad day I just keep it all inside