Trigger warning . Read with caution

I have looked on so many forums for advice and it seems that there is no help to be found.

Ok so here is my story. My child has depression from being bullied in school . She is 10 years old and was bullied all last year. One child threatened to slit her throat, another told her he was going to rape her some of this while already in therapy . She was called ugly , fat and all the names in the book.

So fast forward to a few months ago , she came to me while we were on a walk and confided in me that she thinks about killing herself everyday. I broke down and lost it crying and immediately looked up all the signs of childhood depression. She had them all. So i immediately set her up with therapy. Therapy does not seem to be helpful at all. I try to ve so calm and patient and let her get her anger out. Unfortunately all her anger is pointed towards me. She is so hateful towards me that she told me on mothera day that she hated that day and wished i was not her mom . She calls me annoying, lazy( i work 40 hours plus a week plus maintain a home and her). She calls me all kinds of hateful things and yells at me constantly. She kicked me in the face the other day . I am totally losing it. I hate my life now and am so beaten down that i am falling deep into depression as well now. She refuses to do anything and if you even bring up taking a shower it is beyond world war 3. She tells my bf of 4 years to break up with me and is hateful towards him as well. Does anyone else have any advice or anything that can help me. I love my baby to death and have been doing absolutely everything in my ppwer to help her but literally nothing has been making a difference.