Am I crazy for wanting to create a list of “rules” for those who want to come visit after baby is born!? I.E No smelling like smoke or smoking before hand, up to date on vaccinations, and no kissing. I feel like it could come off as bitchy BUT we have specific family members who are heavy smokers and anti vaccination. To each there own I’m not judging on what works for their family BUT I feel like I do have a right to say what goes for my newborn. I just don’t want to come off as mean and judgmental which isn’t the case. I’m just thinking of my newborn who will be born in December and susceptible to all of these outside factors. Please help!