I miss foreplay!

Lately with my partner it seems like all he wants to do is penetration sex. We’ve been together almost 2 years but I miss when we’d take our time with things and he’d actually focus on turning me on and teasing me. Now it’s like he just waits til I’m wet enough for him to go in, and if that’s right away, then no foreplay needed for him. Last night we were showering together and we started making out and he went to finger me but I moved his hand so he was doing clit stuff instead. Tbh that was the fastest I almost got off but then he stopped like a minute later and put his penis in even when it was pretty obvious I was close before. The past few months it seems like our sex is all about him getting off. He’s never finished me, though it’s been close, but now it seems like his effort is going away. I’m on my period, but even before he hasn’t gone down on me in months. I go down on him a few times a week, and I’ve asked him to do it more and he’ll do it once. I don’t want to ask every time, you know? Advice?