Question, Please help (fresh & frozen)

Cearrah

This is our 3rd month doing at home insemination. I wanted to know for all of you that use fresh sperm, what does it look like? We are using a friend and his is very clear and never gives alot. Ive read online that clear is low sperm count or blanks. Which makes me understand why it hasn’t happened yet. We inseminated the night before Opk with his, then the next morning we had frozen come in the mail, but I royally fucked it up and spilled it all, I pulled the syringe back to far, was terrible, talk about laying in bed crying. Wasted $1,000 Some of it was still in tube and we administered it but it was barely anything. I am 9 dpo now, I have no symptoms other than more discharge than usual.