Man y’all. I’m 19 years old and I’m about to get married in 30 DAYS! I’m so excited but boy am I NERVOUS!

I feel like the church I grew up in did a really poor job of communicating sex and sin and how to do it right and how to avoid it and you know. It was all a bad deal. I basically never learned about it because it was seen as wrong.

Now that I’ve done everything the “right way”, I’m not in the least prepared for what’s ahead!!

So sisters in Christ, what should I do to prepare myself sexually for marriage??! I’ve started birth control. Is that all there is to do!? Wait?