External cephalic version? Experiences?

Hi. I may have to consider an ECV, my baby has not flipped. I'm reading the risks are very low 4-5% but I'm still feeling like no risk is worth it when it comes to a child. I was all for it at first but the more I think about it and the further along I get I'm just feeling like maybe I shouldn't risk it. I'm just looking to hear any experiences good and bad from you ladies.

My main reason for the ECV would be to have a 2nd natural birth as this is my preference but I'm thinking maybe this is selfish..I'm considering an attempt at a breech vaginal birth, I feel the risk is lower with this and I can always get an emergency c section. Not sure how I feel about it all yet. My fear is that baby will be fine on stress test after the ECV we will be sent home and then something will happen as a result or I'll just be an anxiety ridden mess until baby is born because I'll be worrying constantly about her in between appts.