I want to TTC again but I have to wait.

My fiancé and I are engaged to be married next year. We’ve been TTC but we decided if it didn’t take last cycle then we’d wait to try again after the wedding. Man, this sucks and it honestly kind of hurts that we have to wait. Anyone ever been in the same boat where you wanted to TTC but couldn’t for some reason? Everyone around me is just telling me to get my head straight and think “logically” and honestly it’s just breaking my heart a bit. Any advice?