Virgin questions

So I’m a Virgin and been dating my BF for a while and I’m 100% sure I’m ready to do the deed. I have no clue what I’m doing really and there have been a few times that we have tried and he says he’s “nervous” but he’s not the one loosing his v card? Idk what to do to help him get it up? Also I’m embarrassed that I get very wet very fast, is this normal? Need any advice! (We are both in our mid 20s so I feel like this needs to happen ASAP 😂)