My husband and I met in college when I was a sophomore and he was a junior. We used to have the most INCREDIBLE passionate, wild sex. After he graduated, he ended up in a job he hated and I had an awful internship and ended up sick most of the summer. We barely had sex that summer because we were both depressed and I was sick.

Now I’m realizing, I think we FORGOT how to have good sex. Seriously. Is that even possible?! That summer was 2 years ago. During that 2 year period, we got engaged, I graduated, and we got married. We’ve struggled with sex so much. We would never end up being in the mood at the same time. We’ve done it about once or twice a month for the past year and a half, at least. Sometimes it’s been really good. But I forgot what REALLY good sex is like.

Last night, we remembered. I don’t know how. But something came over him and he started acting WILD like I haven’t seen in 2 years! It had been so long since we had sex like this that I think we had even forgotten that sex COULD be like this.

We’re both just laughing, and smacking ourselves on the head. We wasted so much time not doing this! How had we forgotten how to do it like that?! Of course we hadn’t wanted sex very much lately... because now all sex seems just BAD in comparison to how good we now remember that we’re capable of being!

Husband is texting me at work today that he’s so sore but wants to do it again tonight 😂

Just making this post because I’m happy, and relieved, and most of our arguments the past 2 years have been about sex and I’m just praying that’s over now and we’re back to how we used to be! And to give hope to people who are struggling with their sex lives in their longterm relationships... I could swear we were just a boring married couple now and that sex would always be downhill. But after TWO YEARS of struggling to get our sex life back on track, WE FUCKING DID IT. It’s like we’re 19/21 again, I feel so happy and alive!!!