So my husband and I found out that we're expecting a baby (I'm currently 16 weeks) and I'm afraid he won't help with the baby. We grew up completely different, he grew up in a family where the women does everything...cook, clean, maintain the the home, and care for the kids and the husband. I didn't grow up like that. I grew up where the man helped the one when help was needed, and the care for the woman and kids came first.

My husband and I will be moving to Fort Hood, Texas (moving in together for the first time, being that he's in the military) in September & I'm due in December, being that we're both away from family and we're both first-time parents, I'm going to need help...and I don't think he'll be the help and support that I need. Its sounds bad, but I'm concerned. My husband is an AMAZING husband, support, everything...but when it comes to having a new home and having a newborn, I'm just concerned he won't help me how I need him to.

Any advice???????